A law called The New York Health Care Proxy Law
allows you to appoint someone you trust - for example, a family member
or close friend - to decide about treatment if you lose the ability
to decide for yourself. You can do this by filling out a Health Care
Proxy Form like the one located on the New York State
Department of Health web site below.
www.health.state.ny.us/nysdoh/hospital/healthcareproxy/intro.htm